View Full Version : Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Kaolla
01-29-2003, 07:19 AM
Just wether or not you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or if you are single?
Aiguma
01-29-2003, 08:42 AM
Single. And enjoying myself.
Though it's hard to find someone for such an angsty individual as I. xo;
phlyRy
01-29-2003, 09:49 AM
can i have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend?
Kiyoharu
01-29-2003, 10:06 AM
sure you can, just follow my example ^_^
shufang
01-29-2003, 11:51 AM
Single, though I have a whole bunch of friends.
JFA_bobguy
01-29-2003, 12:15 PM
I have plenty of friends from either gender, but I'm single for reasons explained elsewhere.
Pikachu
01-29-2003, 12:31 PM
Single and not really looking. I'm happy wit me having nice little crushes :foxy: Besides me ish happy with my Sieghart. <3 XDDDD; *dies* (heeeelllpppp meeee)
Lucifer
01-29-2003, 01:30 PM
I had..
frost
01-29-2003, 01:57 PM
nope
happy w/ being single ^^
relationships brings stress..
i'm happy being surrounded by friends
LoveLongLost
01-29-2003, 02:03 PM
~Shrugs~Girls around here have such mixed feelings, i dunno whether i have none or Five.
angelapocalypse
01-29-2003, 02:09 PM
Nope =]
Yurika Star
01-29-2003, 02:19 PM
I have male and female friends.
And am currently working up the guts to ask a girl i know out.
I am to shy really ^^;;
phlyRy
01-29-2003, 02:27 PM
as i understand myself, i am single and not really looking. but if someone is hot and my hormones are going crazy...that can't be helped. tho...even if there is someone, i don't think i'll get into a relationship, because i'm not worth anybody's time.
Single and content. I don't want to date someone if it's going to cost all my attention. I have a short enough attention span as it is. I'd drive any guy crazy. *coughs* XD
Single, not particularly looking but shit happens in life, hehe, never know what lies ahead.
Dahlia
01-29-2003, 04:03 PM
Originally posted by Yurika Star
I have male and female friends.
And am currently working up the guts to ask a girl i know out.
I am to shy really ^^;;
Ganbare!! ^_^
I'm currently single, I'm not very good in relationships, they cause me a lot of stress and pressure. I never seem to be able to relax since I'm a constant doubter and worrier. People are better off not dating me ^^;
Jeneverille
01-29-2003, 04:36 PM
I'm single, and not looking. Lack of trust makes me a bad girlfriend.
Scarlett Fire
01-29-2003, 04:58 PM
i've said it before and i'm saying it again: my life's too complicated for me to have a boyfriend. o.<;
chacocat
01-29-2003, 05:30 PM
single...don't need the extra stress of a relationship...AP is already stressful enough x______X *dies*
Ayanami
01-29-2003, 05:49 PM
Wow...alot of single people! ^_^
Same here...just had a few nasty breakups in the past few months >.<
Quite happy to be out of it for a while!
kyrien
01-29-2003, 06:24 PM
Hm... single and quite content. <3 Bou-chan...
Michieru
01-29-2003, 06:57 PM
Single, irl.
Kokoro
01-29-2003, 09:13 PM
single...never had a boyfriend...dont plan to for a while...they take up too much time...and considering the fact that im only 14, whats the point?
Sho Saisyu
01-29-2003, 09:17 PM
Single, but this girl and I are getting really close irl..and yeah, a whole lot of mixed stuff is happening, so..I really don't know what i'm doing. Getting into a relationship will completely KILL my grades...cause i'm a guy who likes to spend every moment he possibly can with the woman he loves..Cuddle for hours, then realize "Shizzle...it's 9 and I got a report to do..Gotta go home"
c.c Stuck between a relationship and grades, Ai yai yai.
[edit] It's odd too. Cause she's not even into games or anime, just another cheerleader. x.o Cept' she has a brain, unlike most of em. :D
Rijl al Awwa
01-29-2003, 09:18 PM
Single. It's nice staying single-- I don't really miss having a relationship. Although, a lot of girls are not interesting in a lasting relationship anyway.
I follow rwen's comment. But, I have no name for this computer ._.
phlyRy
01-29-2003, 10:12 PM
hm...i have no friends. so the closest i have is the computer. >_< pathetic.
Akina
01-29-2003, 10:30 PM
I’m single and quite comfortable with it. I like being single, it's very pleasant to me. u.u
DragonNinja
01-29-2003, 10:50 PM
I have lots and lots of guy friends, but I'm still single. LoL. I don't really mind though. It's fun to play around with them and not have to worry about making someone jealous. ^_~
phlyRy
01-29-2003, 11:05 PM
hm...my sister has a whole bunch of guys who all like her...and even though she is "single"...i'm not sure there isn't jealousy.
Clairebear
01-30-2003, 12:24 AM
Single and extreamly comfortable with it, males are just.... *gets frustrated* especially the males around here.....
Originally posted by DragonNinja
I have lots and lots of guy friends, but I'm still single. LoL. I don't really mind though. It's fun to play around with them and not have to worry about making someone jealous. ^_~
Exactly. XD; I'm happy with being single for now, and that's one of the main reasons. Another is AP classes, as a few people have brought up oo;
Pikachu
01-30-2003, 11:43 AM
Ditto, Dragon ninja... I'm just happy with having them as my friends, I guess. All of them are fun to be with, though I know i have a crush on one of them, I think w're better of as friends (cause we'd be arguing too much).
Hrm, am i mistaken or are the ones who post in this thread all single? I could've skimmed over one but I do know most are single.. but of course, where am i to say, i'm pretty darn single haha. i'll settle for eyecandy
Kritiker
02-01-2003, 10:21 AM
I think I was born to be single >_<
Kaolla
02-01-2003, 11:14 AM
I had i think a boyfriend but not any more single road for me !
G4D1El
02-01-2003, 11:16 AM
Nop, single so far!!!
megaman
02-02-2003, 08:08 AM
Blooming single
De l'enfer
02-02-2003, 09:03 AM
same here though in the arrival of valentine's day one wish otherwise
MaD_HaTtEr
02-02-2003, 09:59 AM
on my way to single-ness! o.o
kAilea
02-02-2003, 10:53 AM
Cheers to singlehood!!!!! ;) we so rule!!!!! never be a Smug Married.
Kaolla
02-02-2003, 11:20 AM
So many post!oh my!lol
kyrien
02-02-2003, 08:17 PM
Originally posted by poleaxed_soul
same here though in the arrival of valentine's day one wish otherwise well, not really. it doesn't really bother me that other ppl are being all snuggly. It's just another franchise for the economy to make money off of the easily persuaded public. *be's cynical*
Clairebear
02-03-2003, 01:33 AM
does it bother yall being single? Because it bothers the hell out of me! I crave affection and company.
I fell asleep in someone's arms once, it was the best way to go to sleep, I want that!
Hmm... in California, body heat is a bit uncomfortable when sleeping, hehe.
Clairebear, aww.w. you feel asleep in someone's arms? how sweet ^^;; hehe
Hmm, i'm currently single but i do have a very close guy friend... .. and i have no idea what's going on between us ._.
phlyRy
02-03-2003, 03:19 AM
it's nice to have someone to depend on. but relationships are really supposed to be mutual...so one day, u need a shoulder to lean on, the next day ur bf/gf needs a shoulder to lean on. so...u need to provide support too....and if ur unwilling to do that..then... it must be agreed upon (even if it's a silent contract)
Hisphere
02-03-2003, 03:41 AM
I'm swearing off guys for a long, long time. -nudges Achan, Maddie, and brittany- XD I know at least brittany is.
megaman
02-03-2003, 06:49 AM
yeah i'm a little annoyed be alone.
I need love to T-T.
Yunie
02-04-2003, 03:00 PM
I used to be ok independent. Then I got a boyfriend over winter break and we broke up recently. I want a new one now. >_<;; I want someone to love too.
azaelia
02-04-2003, 08:52 PM
I'm single, and I always have been... xD;;; For some reason I'm just like... not interested in the least. When I think about myself having a boyfriend, it just seems so out of character for me... @_@ I suppose I should just wait for the right person? xD
But my mom tells me to get a boyfriend. o_x I don't wanna~~ *crie*
Scarlett Fire
02-04-2003, 09:13 PM
no one should be pressured into getting a boyfriend. >.< romance isn't the only thing in the world, though it would be nice to be in love at least once in your life. if you don't get a boyfriend, that's alright. we're all still young. (at least i hope so o_O)
M Yui
02-04-2003, 10:07 PM
I'm single, and I don't see any cause for getting romantically involved... I'm not really looking for that type of relationship...I can get all I need from friendship, i think
bladz
02-04-2003, 11:17 PM
Got a Girlfriend. and good for you people who are proud to be single
Clairebear
02-05-2003, 12:11 AM
Originally posted by azaelia
I'm single, and I always have been... xD;;; For some reason I'm just like... not interested in the least. When I think about myself having a boyfriend, it just seems so out of character for me... @_@
sometimes I feel the same way, it feels so out of character to just have a boyfriend.... I'm not going to hurry into a relationship until I know he's right for me.... but then sometimes I wonder "how will I know if he is right for me, I thought my *cough* ex was" how nieve I was..... anywaysyeah, that's how I feel, I'd like someone serious then someone that's going to trample my emotions into dust.
Rodent
02-05-2003, 05:55 AM
Single, I'm too poor to afford a gf :P
DragonNinja
02-05-2003, 10:49 PM
Too poor? Not every girl needs to be bought gifts all the time. =)
Sakura X
02-05-2003, 11:16 PM
Single which is fine......
NO it's not fine :whine: I'm tired of being alone.
But to all of you who are happy being single good for you. I use to feel the same way, wonder what happened?
phlyRy
02-05-2003, 11:25 PM
ah...but girls like being pampered no? hehehe...get a girl who really prefers not...one that's stingy perhaps. ^___________^
Prism
02-05-2003, 11:29 PM
Nope I am single and plan on staying that way for at least a few more years. I still consider myself way too young, but I look around myself and see girls my age dressing all slutty and getting a new bf every two weeks...@_@;; Gah, it's ridiculous... all the boys I know are big jerks anyway ~_~
Shadowangel
02-06-2003, 04:09 PM
I think I'm too much of an emotionally-broken mess for a guy to stand being my boyfriend. u_u;;
Kokoro
02-06-2003, 05:10 PM
Originally posted by poleaxed_soul
same here though in the arrival of valentine's day one wish otherwise
it would be so cute to have someone to giv eyou stuff on valentines day but that doesnt really matter to me...my sister and i tell each other every year we'll get each other presents since we dont have boyfriends...but we never really do...o well...im quite happy right now
phlyRy
02-06-2003, 10:51 PM
hm...i think i might give out valentine's stuff...
Clairebear
02-06-2003, 11:53 PM
Originally posted by DragonNinja
Too poor? Not every girl needs to be bought gifts all the time. =)
I think Rodent ment he would have to pay someone to go out with him.... which is probably not true ^^;;;
ahhhh, Valentines Day..... don't remind me! just another day to remind me how very lonely I am..... I might actually ask someone to be my Valentine!
Hisphere
02-07-2003, 01:46 AM
I'm happily single.. But I still think V-day is just a scam for companies to get people to but oodles of cheesy stuff.. XD Except chocolate.. I think I might've said it before.. But CHOCOLATE KICKS ASS!
Clairebear
02-07-2003, 01:49 AM
no offence to people who think V-day is something that companies made up but.....
where's your love?! why not have a day where you can tell the one person you really love how you actually feel?! Perhaps you can't do it every day of the year so why not have a special day for it?!
phlyRy
02-07-2003, 02:12 AM
um...there is a thing called anniversary....
but yes, they lack love.....give rwen lots of love...*cracks up*
if one wants to show dedication, very often it's not shown thru say a diamond ring....so i'm not into v-day that way.
Clairebear
02-07-2003, 02:17 AM
maybe I believe in love to much.... but that's okay.... it is in my books anyways!
Winter
02-07-2003, 02:22 AM
I just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. It was a great relationship. We never fought and got along beautifully. We only broke up because I moved and he doesn't believe in long distance relationships.
So, i'm single and not looking. Won't be looking for a while. Its hard to see a year long relationship go down the tubes for no good reason :'(
Rodent
02-09-2003, 08:54 AM
Originally posted by DragonNinja
Too poor? Not every girl needs to be bought gifts all the time. =)
Prehaps thou women don't like a cheap skate with a oddball personality :p
Evenstar*
02-11-2003, 03:47 AM
Yeah I have a boyfriend. We've been together for over a year now :) *goes all gaga when she thinks about him*
Winter
02-11-2003, 10:08 PM
I miss that Evenstar. Every day with my ex was like that. That's why life sucks so bad sometimes.
RageOfLove
04-22-2003, 03:44 PM
i have only ever had one proper girlfriend, and i did anything with her, and i've never got off with anyone, it pisses me off!!!!
why oh why, do i have to be the match maker, and not the matched????
~crie with self pitty~
MacPhisto
04-22-2003, 03:55 PM
Hey I'm committed ^^ I got no problem with being committed, so long as it's to the right person. I was big on being single for a long time, though.
Besides, I'm not surprised everyone's single, I mean... a lot of people are still in high school @_@;;
>>Macky
AnguishedBlade
04-22-2003, 05:36 PM
Um, just because you have or don't have a boyfriend or girlfreind, does NOT mean you're single or married.
As for me, I haven't even dated yet.
Angra
04-22-2003, 07:01 PM
Single... 'cause I want it... boyfriends can be troublesome sometimes (no, always! :p)...
phlyRy
04-23-2003, 02:44 PM
so.....i'm single...i'm going to die single. perhaps because of my dark self inflicted past...i don't feel interested in guys all that much. but i have a tendency to be attracted to my friends...which for the most part is a total dead end. there was a time things were different...i took a chance and had a chance...and had something going for a little bit...but it crashed and burned. i had opened up and compromised... now i don't even dare. the most i would do is occasionally become perverted and think of people as sex objects...but it would be fleeting and a passing amusement...and if i try to think of relationships at all...i'd scold and yell at myself to no end.
dang it i sound angsty again... -_- no i don't i sound bitter...yeah that's it.
AnguishedBlade
04-23-2003, 05:41 PM
Originally posted by AnguishedBlade
Um, just because you have or don't have a boyfriend or girlfreind, does NOT mean you're single or married
2 seconds later after explanation.....
Originally posted by Angra
Single... 'cause I....
Argh.......:( ;)
phlyRy
04-23-2003, 06:03 PM
-_- single and yet have a boyfriend? huh? that makes no sense...unless u mean a player. or do u mean...u can be single and not have a boy/girl-friend? granted u can be married...thus the person isn't a boy/girl-friend...
Ange de la Paix
04-23-2003, 08:33 PM
well I think I'm old when I read the posts there >.< anyway I feel in that way...
I'm with the love of my life (yes, true!) since more than 2 years and we took an apartment one year ago (thanx to our parents ^^;), because we had to move for our studies (and I chose the same city as him ^_- in my town it sucks)
misao, your post about why you don't have a bf is kind of depressing... ^^;; maybe your phantasms are too strong ?? do you make 'weird" dreams at night ? (personally I do, and it's very disturbing sometimes - I think it could be interesting to start a new topic about our fantasms and dreams...)
phlyRy
04-23-2003, 08:45 PM
well...i am angsty. but i fight against phantasms. one of the problems was that the person i was with...actually encouraged it...and i was more or less getting quite restless that way. i've reached the point where i'm not interested in guys and i'm not thrilled to collect anymore "battle scars" so to speak.
I'm single too! I want to experience a relationship sometime though, because it would make my fanfics more authentic XP XP Yup, that's the only incentive I can think of.
skye_eiden
04-24-2003, 08:35 AM
*points to herself* happily commited :D
De l'enfer
04-24-2003, 09:30 AM
good for you!!XD
I'm single too. XD
Ashuriel
04-24-2003, 11:37 AM
I have. 9 years older than me. Killer, huh.
ArrowsTip
04-25-2003, 06:45 PM
I'm single, not looking, and could care less. I'm too shy.
xhunter18
04-26-2003, 10:37 AM
just a bunch of 3.
Paine
04-27-2003, 08:01 AM
Single I think......O.o
Illynova
04-27-2003, 11:21 AM
lets see... to answer the question....
Well... I kinda do, and I kinda don't.... it's really confusing. I'm best friends with her, we both like each other, yet we're both afriad of changing of relationship. I told her how I felt, and asked her. lol, she never denied liking me, but never confirmed them. And she told me while she was afriad to date at the moment, she still would want to soon.
Girls are confusing.
nope^^ never^^ maybe i'll become a non (argh, how is it spelled) to justify it^______^
really, i'd run away, if i had a chance to get a boyfriend or piss him off before i know that it had been there^^°
phlyRy
04-28-2003, 02:18 PM
it's spelled nun.
i just chill with a group of friends....
Faith
04-28-2003, 02:28 PM
being a matchmaker is fun ^_^
I will make a match for rwen. yes yes, I am very resolved in this
Haiyaku
04-28-2003, 02:33 PM
Uhm... whee, a question! Uhm, yeah. ^.^
MaD_HaTtEr
04-28-2003, 02:50 PM
boyfriends/girlfriends are loads of trouble... x.x I prefere dating my pc from now on! XD XD
phlyRy
04-28-2003, 02:53 PM
oO matchmaking seems like it tends to cause disaster...
Originally posted by Faith
being a matchmaker is fun ^_^
I will make a match for rwen. yes yes, I am very resolved in this
w00t!
kyrien
04-28-2003, 04:53 PM
T.T; But I'm already matched up with my compy. *huggles bou-chan*
Laria
04-28-2003, 05:08 PM
Single for now. I'd like to be in a relationship someday but having a bf now would make things way too complicated. And I've only met a few guys I would consider dating anyway. I'm not looking for a quickie. ^_- And he has to be a Christian who isn't looking for sex. That sort of cuts down on a lot of possibilities, ne? ^_^
Illynova--> Yes, we are. ^_- But it's what makes you want to get to know us better, right? Mystery and allure. lol.
phlyRy
04-28-2003, 05:36 PM
i think rwen is afraid. xD
kyrien
04-28-2003, 05:55 PM
I'm not so much afraid as I am not in the mood nor have the time to deal with a relationship. Make a match for Yukie. She needs to actually go somewhere beyond a 50 meter radius from the dorm...
olbaid
04-28-2003, 06:00 PM
50 meters? don't people go to class? =P
Yukie
04-28-2003, 06:05 PM
.............. class? what class...
phlyRy
04-28-2003, 06:07 PM
i think...personally...if someone tries to match me up...i'll just be annoyed. i don't like people trying to figure out my life for me...
Illynova
04-28-2003, 09:12 PM
Originally posted by Laria
Single for now. I'd like to be in a relationship someday but having a bf now would make things way too complicated. And I've only met a few guys I would consider dating anyway. I'm not looking for a quickie. ^_- And he has to be a Christian who isn't looking for sex. That sort of cuts down on a lot of possibilities, ne? ^_^
Illynova--> Yes, we are. ^_- But it's what makes you want to get to know us better, right? Mystery and allure. lol.
Perhaps it does. But when one says, yes no, and maybe so to a question.... it kinda messes with your head. ;)
Clairebear
04-28-2003, 09:23 PM
hmmmm.... I have a bloke. He lives far far away and due to work, he's going even further away, out of the country! for 6 whole months! and I won't be able to communicate with him the whole time! That's why he's only my bloke, and not my actual boyfriend.
Sarah
04-28-2003, 09:27 PM
I really dont have a boy friend but there is this boy that we both share a little small relationship..lol XD
Diablos
04-29-2003, 10:01 AM
no i dont have a girlfriend it always ends bad for me
Oxygen
04-29-2003, 02:39 PM
Right now, somewhat single. Guess you all have heard the story of a guy and girl who are somewhat more than friends yet the relationship is going nowhere. I, am so pathetically stuck in this mess... Love hurts alot. :confused:
oh, brings up another question of mine! do you know the feeling that you like somebody really much, much more than a friend and so much that it is not logical yet you would never think about startinig a relationship with him/her?
Oxygen
04-30-2003, 12:39 PM
Yup, thought about it... I don't know, after I thought less of that guy, the 'liking' just sort of went away... but I had a soft spot for him...
why is that? it's happened to me also and i dun understand it O_O
I'm single. ^_^ It comes when it comes, I think. ^_^
P.S. Yume, I love your avatar... ^^
Ashuriel
05-04-2003, 09:06 AM
I just broke up with mine. It's coz of pressure. Everybody hates him and as for me, I can't help it anymore.
Now SINGLE. -_-
LoveLongLost
05-04-2003, 09:09 AM
XD.Relationships take way too much time. A girlfreind always wants me to spend ALL of my time (and money) on her, and i lose my own life in the process. I'd much rather lead my own life than waste it on another.
Yurika Star
05-04-2003, 09:19 AM
My spanish friend is setting me up with a spanish girl when he comes over this summer, it will most doubtedly end in disaster, mainly as she speeks so little english.
And my friend ship status with my female friends is still strong...damn it.
Ashuriel
05-04-2003, 10:37 AM
Relationships are kinda frustrating at times coz you've got lots of responsibility. As a 16 year old. I don't think i'm ready for one. I still have to cope for my studies and besides, my ex is one generation older than me. Lots of pressure and differences. Always get someone in your generation. -___-
Ren: thankies ^^
funny, a friend of mine always talks about her boyfriend being too clingy 'he wants to see me almost everyday, it pisses me off! it's like a little dog hanging on your trousers.' is what she says and she has broken up with him one time already, for 2 weeks and she looked like she was going to kill herself - not coming to school, crying the whole time and i don't understand ppl in love.
as for me i think i'm much to egoistic to change myself for a boyfriend and the way i am now i won't get one. it seems impossible that i'd start a relationship myself *ever* and if a guy would do it i'd simply be shocked. a boy in my school liked to say that he liked me and that he wanted to ask me out and i don't know until now whether he was joking or not 'cause i just kept saying haha don't kid me O_O
megaman
05-22-2003, 11:03 AM
single, but hey who knows what lies ahead.
Spesh with this girl i know ^-^
skye_eiden
05-22-2003, 12:33 PM
I am proud to announce that on the 27th of May, me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 and a half years!!! XD XD XD i'm so excited! we're making plans on going out @@ weeeeeeee! :D :D oh joy!
Phedre
05-22-2003, 07:06 PM
~jumps around in joy~ yes all right i have a sweet story...first bf ~yes yes i know...i'm 17 and haven't had a bf...shut up ;)~
so i was doing My Fair Lady right? at my highschool and i met this guy there, he had the dorkiest part in the play (Zoltan Karpathy) so it was hilarious
and the day before it closed he asked me out...so far we have tons n common and it's goin sooo well!
i'm so happy, he's so sweet and it'll be about 2 weeks...actually it's 2 weeks tomorrow...~grins~
all right...sorry if i sound giddy or soemthing...nyways
~trods off~
zangerbanger
05-22-2003, 10:29 PM
At the moment, I am single :( .
Gravity
05-23-2003, 04:05 PM
Single and not looking. I have too much schoolwork to have a b/f, but on somedays, I just wish I had one. Oh well; I'm not the type to hug, kiss, or even hold hands. ^^;
ah, sorry, i always have such stupid questions: em, is it true that in many countries it is sort of a *rule* that boys pay for practically everything the girl wants and if someone doesn't have much money he can't date a girl? O_O
Hotaru
05-23-2003, 10:55 PM
i'm single and i dont want a b/f. ^^
i think... uh... i kind of am in one? yes i love my special someone and i can't imagine life... without someone to share it with. x.x *gets pounded by happy singles*
I'm single and loving it. Don't see myself hooking up with a fella any time soon.
Kinael
05-25-2003, 11:06 PM
Currently the Senate Majority Whip.
Sarah
05-26-2003, 01:00 AM
i just broke up with a b/f... no more cuz it causes so many complications
M Yui
05-27-2003, 03:30 PM
Originally posted by yume
ah, sorry, i always have such stupid questions: em, is it true that in many countries it is sort of a *rule* that boys pay for practically everything the girl wants and if someone doesn't have much money he can't date a girl? O_O
O.o;; I'd like...freak out if such a rule applied... I hate it when people buy stuff for me ~_~; makes me feel leech-like...
but...um...yeah... o.o surprizingly enough, I do have a boyfriend... never really cared about having one or not and was never really looking, but we were best friends anyway, and after a year, it just kinda...happened O.o;
LoveLongLost
05-27-2003, 03:49 PM
Nothing special about it. Relationships are too..involving. Don't like it.XD;
And it is basically a rule. Loads of girls say they don't like people buying them stuff but it still seems to apply heavily.
M Yui
05-27-2003, 04:21 PM
I agree that it seems to apply with some girls, but I think it's really the preference of the girl, and not a general thing that applies to all couples or anything like that O.o
phlyRy
05-27-2003, 09:33 PM
it's nice to have someone pay for everything. sure...ur pride won't take it very well...
... but you will cause it's free.
frost
05-27-2003, 11:21 PM
i like to pay for myself
even when i'm w/ my friends...
maybe it's cuz of that chinese proverb..
"don't misuse other ppl's generosity"
Clairebear
05-28-2003, 12:37 AM
I feel weird about holding hands too.... it's.... weird.... o_O;;;
Kokoro
05-28-2003, 03:16 AM
i would love for someone to pay for everything i buy. if anything, he'll feel as if hes being used and he'll dump me. but thats ok, cuz if i get a boyfriend right now, its because im forced to or something stupid and i wont feel bad about him buying me stuff.
~lofo~
05-28-2003, 09:50 AM
no....i don't, but i really miss having one.....just can't seem to find the right one.... *sniff*
M Yui
05-28-2003, 03:34 PM
I'm kinda weird... I like the thought that my boyfriend cares enough about me and thinks about me even when I'm not there, that he'd spend his money just to try and make me happy... but the execution... ~_~; makes me feel like I'm taking advantage or something...
TwoBellSilence
05-29-2003, 08:57 AM
-grumblegrumble-
~lofo~
05-29-2003, 11:27 AM
Originally posted by M Yui
I'm kinda weird... I like the thought that my boyfriend cares enough about me and thinks about me even when I'm not there, that he'd spend his money just to try and make me happy... but the execution... ~_~; makes me feel like I'm taking advantage or something...
execution?? did i miss somethin'?
skye_eiden
05-29-2003, 12:10 PM
i think that if a guy showers me with stuff and spends a lot for me... it means that he's insecure... that he doesn't trust my feelings towards him... that he feels that there's a need to constantly make me 'happy' when in the end... its not really like that
Kyreii
05-29-2003, 12:44 PM
Hmm... I'd never shower a person with money, makes them feel they're being bought...
I'm looking for one... a gf that is... :p
M Yui
05-29-2003, 09:27 PM
Originally posted by TwoBellSilence
-grumblegrumble-
=P you spend more money on me than is humanly appropriate... you shouldn't do that even IF I liked all the gifts @.@;; such a waste...
Originally posted by ~lofo~
execution?? did i miss somethin'?
execution meaning... the carrying out, not in the sense of killing someone ^^;
azaelia
05-30-2003, 01:07 AM
I don't like it when people buy me things, either. XD Unless they're way older than me. In that case I don't feel bad. >D;;; If I had a boyfriend that bought me stuff all the time I'd probably get mad. o.O I'd prefer to talk to him and get to know him or something rather than be bought stuff. e.e
M Yui
05-30-2003, 03:38 PM
well...I think the buying stuff and the talking/getting to know eachother can be independent of eachother... it doesn't seem implausible for a boyfriend to be both close and...er...gift-giving? O.o;
blue eyes
05-31-2003, 08:16 PM
I dont have and I dont plan to.
Winter
05-31-2003, 09:49 PM
Actually, I now have a prospect for a long distance kind of thing. It's...complicated to say the least.
frost
06-01-2003, 02:52 AM
LD relationships are hard to maintain.. but it can work if both sides are willing ^^;
De l'enfer
06-01-2003, 02:58 AM
But even if they are willing, it is easy to get distanced. As both parties are thousands of miles apart, there are chances that there will be scenerios of " The grass is greener on the other side." Maybe I'm pessimistic, but i think it takes a lot of effort to make things work and sometimes, it just get too tiring.
Diablos
06-01-2003, 05:52 AM
LD relationships are hard :( never end well unless you waste infinite amounts of time and effort (and money) De l'enfer is right they are too tiring
De l'enfer
06-01-2003, 09:46 AM
Yea, those long distance phone calls would be killers.
phlyRy
06-01-2003, 07:44 PM
LD can work better if both sides agree to be very casual...
Winter
06-02-2003, 03:36 AM
well, the whole thing about it being LD, is that if it is, we only live like two hours away from each other.
I'll go more into detail on the situation if anyone is interested. Which I'm sure they aren't...
Kyreii
06-02-2003, 10:01 AM
2 hours isn't LD... O.O at least I don't think so...
frost
06-02-2003, 02:44 PM
well... u can't always be together, even if it's only 2 hours apart...
so it's sorta LD ^^;
heh i'm interested in ur situation winter =D i'll msg/pm u or something...
Winter
06-02-2003, 04:01 PM
Sweetness frost. PM me and i'll send you my IM contacts.
That offer's open to everyone who ever wants to chat. I love IMing people!
Hotaru
06-02-2003, 05:42 PM
can you just tell here? ^^; i cant talk on aim.
frost
06-02-2003, 11:13 PM
same here ^^ i love chatting..
although it sorta screws up my marks..
anyways, the thing w/ LD is that eventually there'll be nothing to talk about -_-;
cuz u can't really spend time w/ them.. and no physical contact either...
it CAN work though ^^ cuz i've tried it before... it was a casual relationship, but fun nonetheless =P
Winter
06-03-2003, 03:00 AM
Tots. I agree with you frost. I was in one for like two years. But we were causal about it. We were allowed to see other people (even though nither of us did). Both people have to be 100% on it, you know?
Kyreii
06-13-2003, 10:50 AM
LD relationship with Neo... he flies right??? LOL :p
LoveLongLost
06-13-2003, 12:46 PM
I've said it loads of times. LD relationships REQUIRE a Physical touch. If it's that serious, you MUST visit each other, any way possible. Like in Uriel's case - He goes to America to see his girlfreind. I think their relationship wouldn't have worked so well if they never met Ir/l.
Haiyaku
06-13-2003, 07:15 PM
whee, i'm single again. o___o;;
And I agree with Lovey. It hard to be in a relationship without even knowing how it feels to give that person so much as a hug.
Winter
06-14-2003, 01:18 AM
I was in a long distance relationship for two years witha guy that I hadn't seen since before we were "together" but it wasn't meant to last. We were freshman in high school.
Kyreii
06-14-2003, 12:33 PM
Yeah... any kind does actually... friends. You need to see them... not just talk on the phone, chat or send emails... :p
Nightshade
07-14-2003, 06:45 PM
I've been in love, and I know from experience that it's one of the greatest feelings that I've ever known. Like just floating. It is, in a word, perfect.
I'm single now, but there are like 3 girls that like me. They're not bad looking or anything, it's just that they have no fucking personality, ya know? I can't go out with someone who has about as
much personality as a can of tuna. It just doesn't work.
Possibly. Who wants ta know?
Winter
07-15-2003, 05:14 AM
*grins widley and blushes* Yeah. We got together on the fourth of July (easy to remember huh? ;)) I'm in loooooove :D:D:D:D :):):)
haha. The only person i ever loved started dating me on Memorial day. I never leave my house on that day.. I just eat alot of chocolate and cry... oh the guilt.
GASP! loosing macheesmo attidude! Uhh... She meant nothing! hahaha...*** wimper....
skye_eiden
07-15-2003, 09:07 AM
In Uriel's case (LD) I REALLY ADMIRE IT... and no... not kissing up.. swear to God (wait.. im Catholic.. its bad to swear right? ...oh well.) Its amazing... really... he really loves his girl so much and would go to any length just to hear her voice ;____________; wow!!! their relationship deserves plenty of praise
as for me... i just got lucky... A HELL LOT LUCKY.. >.<;;; but it kinda makes me feel bad when my classmates say: "KT! (my nickname.. ick.. dont ask) HE'S TO GOOD FOR U!!! HOW DID HE END UP WITH SOMEONE LIKE YOU?" ;____________; yeah.. ouchy... but true. he's good looking, intelligent, a smooth talker.. makes me wonder why he never got popular.. oh thats right.. cuz he's not a sell out... and to top it all of.. he's so nice! has a clean record in school... and hates smoke.. like me!!! ;____________; and he enjoys life very much... total opposite of me... cuz i keep a busy sched.
Uriel
07-15-2003, 09:20 AM
You're too kind, KT-chan.
skye_eiden
07-15-2003, 09:25 AM
K..T...chan? O.O NO... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD... DONT EVER CALL ME THAT AGEN! pweasy? >.< i abhor the silly nickname... i mean.. im used to my classmates with that.. but not with guys... @@ its so... girly? XD even my guy doesnt call me that @@ please dont!!! *hides under blanky*
Kyreii
07-15-2003, 09:59 AM
Kateh...Kateh...
Hehehe...
skye_eiden
07-15-2003, 10:47 AM
>.< Kateh is fine.. although i rather not have anyone call me that cuz that was originally my sister's nick @@;;; baah whatever! this is so out of topic XD
Kyreii
07-16-2003, 11:38 AM
K.T. chan...
Anyway... I STILL don't have a girlfriend, though I'm not in a hurry... In our culture, it's kind of harder to get a girlfriend... *rolleyes*
Faith
07-17-2003, 10:47 PM
I've decided to become asexual and to get married to my medical career
olbaid
07-17-2003, 11:35 PM
=(
diamond hunter
07-18-2003, 10:32 AM
I have no time for relationships -___- maybe after I graduated, now all the guys are just "friends"...
I'm currently single :( :)
Hey Aika, you looking? *wink, wink, nudge nudge*
;)
Clairebear
07-19-2003, 07:11 AM
Stupid Army! Stupid East Timor! Why can't they look after themself?!
*ahem* My fella isin the Army and currently doing peacekeeping in East Timor... it's not so bad... he can call me when he likes and send me emails so it's not so bad.
That sounds erriely familiar... like a certain FF8 game I playing earlier. So Timor is an actual place? I think I have found the location for my next story...
Kyreii
07-20-2003, 12:41 AM
Of course East Timor is an actual place... it was all over the news a few years back...
Clairebear
07-20-2003, 03:13 AM
yeah! Indonesia invaded east timor and because they didn't fight back, Australian troops were sent over to help making sure it's safe.... or basically walking around with weapons looking tough..... so my guy walks around with a weapon looking tough while getting paid a large amount :D
Aesome. I'm making that part of my world now. Thanks guys, and, do you think there's a hidden meaning in FF8? haha.
Pikachu
07-20-2003, 04:23 AM
Please try to stay on topic. This thread has been rather long so if you want to talk about things unrelated to this topic, please do so in the apporpriate thread, forum or do it over AIM/IM software. Thanks. :D
shinotenshi
04-20-2004, 05:17 PM
No I fucking dont..boy do I feel like an idiot.
kokochiyoi
04-20-2004, 06:26 PM
I do love someone, I'm so in love with a boy.....*BLUSHES*
Scarlett Fire
04-21-2004, 01:21 AM
:O! this thread! .... is older than a year. XD and even if a year has passed, my romantic relationship hasn't changed--it's non-existent.
raine
04-21-2004, 01:51 AM
Hurrah for digging up old threads!
Meh. I have myself a boyfriend :D and I adore him to bits and peices *faints*
kokochiyoi
04-21-2004, 08:16 AM
I love mine too :) I simply couldn't live a moment of my life without him anymore...
it's kind of strange cos we basically have just 'started' dating I LOVE YOU MY NENEEEEEEEEEEE :)
Sarah
04-21-2004, 01:39 PM
No I fucking dont..boy do I feel like an idiot.
:weep: i feel so baddd
shinotenshi
04-21-2004, 01:50 PM
*cracks up* dont ^.^ I'm not (read that note I sent ya...XD!!! *dies* Billings look out!) Hey! ya like my new avvy? XD
bulma_maxwell
04-21-2004, 02:32 PM
My god..Saya will you be ok...
shinotenshi
04-21-2004, 02:39 PM
-chokes on her near ate doughnut- yeah...just dont tell SanSan..^^; I'll be fine. (you love vanishing dont you...)
Phedre
04-21-2004, 03:58 PM
arg this is really old...hmm let's see the update on my love life is: BOYS ARE IDIOTS!
it's hilarious, any boy who ...agg whatever...but i don't have a prom date so it sucks >.<
if only there was someone decent in this area who wasn't a total jack ass
Aurikku
04-21-2004, 07:52 PM
Hmm... I think I just lost my boyfriend today. I played a cruel joke on him (I told his fellow baritone player to tell him that we had sex). He didn't quite believe him, but I made him believe and now he's pissed. Oh, so complicated. I just wanted a good laugh. I thought he trusted me.
Nightshade
04-21-2004, 11:42 PM
No...I don't have a girlfriend...I have a fiancee...
De l'enfer
04-22-2004, 06:28 AM
Cool..
When are you getting married?
kokochiyoi
04-22-2004, 09:03 AM
Aurikku: im really sorry about what has happened, maybe you should talk to him and explain him everything.
Night: when are we going to the wedding??? ^^
Nightshade
04-22-2004, 01:27 PM
We, kokochiyoi? We? I am getting married in August...
Scarlett Fire
04-22-2004, 01:40 PM
:OO you're my age! and you're getting married!
i'm not mad, just in shock. ^^ i've compared my immature self to you. shameful on my part! @D@ i perceived myself as at least 2 years younger in mindset, i'll probably die an old maid. for a moment, i hadn't really considered that you may be as good and ready for marriage. you must be happy to find love so young.
T-T omg, best wishes to both of you. wedding pictures! *nudge*
(i hope to heaven you weren't kidding, for i'll probably die in embarrasment for being so worked up over it. XD)
Nightshade
04-22-2004, 01:46 PM
We'll make sure that there are plenty of pictures to go around...Yes...Yes, I am happy...
Sarah
04-22-2004, 02:29 PM
you're getting married?.. thats nice..
Nightshade
04-22-2004, 02:30 PM
...I'd like to think so...Although others here would rather see me in a ditch on the side of a desert highway with my throat cut, it seems....But, that seems to be the case more often than not, As of Late...But, If people want to hate me, let them. I'm used to it.
Sarah
04-22-2004, 02:34 PM
who is this other? well i dunno
kokochiyoi
04-22-2004, 02:59 PM
anyway I wish you the best to you and your future wife ^^
Phedre
04-22-2004, 03:56 PM
yes congrats!! how long have you two been going out? cause you never told me!! ~evil look~
remember i'm still here if you wanna have fun before the wedding day ~wink wink~ LMAO
send me pics n stuff!!
edit: just realized you're my age!...wow
Nightshade
04-22-2004, 04:16 PM
No, Phedre, No Bachelor's party for me...I, uh...Nevermind....
Phedre
04-22-2004, 04:38 PM
LOL awwww
you're missing out ~ahem~
anyways
kokochiyoi
04-22-2004, 06:20 PM
too bad we were all going to get inside a cake and give you a surprise ^^
shinotenshi
04-22-2004, 06:52 PM
I believe I know whom the other person is, well, 2 people anyway.
raine
04-22-2004, 07:30 PM
Best of luck to you, Nightshade and your future wife!
Pictures! :O Lots of them! :O
*Shakes a bottle of Coke and sprays it everywhere.. cus she isn't enough to drink*
Nightshade
04-23-2004, 01:36 PM
And Who might it be?
Sarah
04-23-2004, 02:06 PM
how long have you and bree been going out?
Nightshade
04-23-2004, 02:14 PM
Why would you like to know?
Sarah
04-23-2004, 02:21 PM
im just curious.. dont tell then/ -.-
Minerva
04-23-2004, 03:58 PM
I'm beginning to doubt Nightshade is involved with anyone at all.
shinotenshi
04-23-2004, 06:43 PM
And Who might it be?
well, I'd hate to say this but more people have joined the listing...but I have to include these people so you know
~Dawn
~Bobby
~Tim
~Matt
~Tiffany
~Liz
~Sherrie
~Tova
~Vaylon
~Eddie
~Aaron
~Louis
~Emerald
eh...yeah...more..
I'm starting to doubt it too...not to sound mean but (please forgive me) Bree sounds like something one of those pokemon type creatures would make...(sorry sorry!)
Kyreii
04-24-2004, 03:54 AM
Bree is a town in Lord of the rings... :p
ANYWAYS: I still don't have a girlfriend... :( But I'm going out with some people... that's an improvement. :) Still looking... meeting, just plain having fun.
Nightshade: No bachelor's party? Damn... :P
kokochiyoi
04-24-2004, 09:09 AM
Kyreii GOOD LUCKKKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nightshade
04-25-2004, 06:35 PM
Fine... You want proof? Well, here it is.
Oh, and...Coming SOON: More pictures of the happy couple!!!
Forsaken
04-25-2004, 08:18 PM
There is this one girl i been waitin to ask out since the 6th grade. Here dad told me that I can ask her out our freshman yr. (WHICH IS NEXT YEAR! WOOHOO!)
But when I first saw her I was like woah. She totally blew my mind. Then I got to know her dad he's cool.
He gave me advice. And helped me out. Then I told her dad I liked her and he said I can next year.
shinotenshi
04-25-2004, 11:06 PM
Nightshade: she looks nice ^_^ must be a graduate (highschool anyway) *nods to this*
Forsaken: damn boi, best of luck lol hope things work out!
kokochiyoi
04-26-2004, 11:17 AM
Forsaken: GOOD LUCK!!!
Nightshade: pretty girl you have :)
my hoi polloi
04-30-2004, 06:15 PM
oh tee hee hee, whats it matter? everyone has someone if only themselves.
Megami
04-30-2004, 06:20 PM
I'm single.. although i think I'm having an affair with my ex.. :sweat2: not good.
shinotenshi
04-30-2004, 06:24 PM
wait a sec..how can you do that? if you're single...he's your ex..dose that mean he has a gal and like you're with him but...ok just explain ^^;
Megami
04-30-2004, 06:31 PM
...actually you got it spot one there. *looks ashamed and hides*
shinotenshi
04-30-2004, 06:34 PM
*jaw drops...finds and hugs* tis ok, just...you've gotta move on big time, he has a gal now and its just weird and uncalled for to cling to the past (speaking from the heart so believe me on this one) I'm sure you can find better but if you're still attracted to him, you might want to tell him so either of you can work something out...cuz cheating is just SO not right....
Megami
04-30-2004, 06:51 PM
Yep, i know its not on at all.. tis kinda an accidental thing.. it will be stopping though..*puts foot down*.. *le sigh* such a messed up situation though...
shinotenshi
04-30-2004, 07:00 PM
an accidental thing, well, its just a small mistake...which I hope you wont let happen again, if it's messed up then I'm sure with a bit of help from friends and what not, you'll be able to clear it up no problem.
Pikachu
05-03-2004, 07:30 PM
OK. All posts that I consider as spam were deleted. Sety's post was fixed,the disappearance was caused by an unnecessary " < " at the beginning, and they thought it was some html tag, which it wasn't.
Update on rabu life? Still single. Still not looking. >_>
licey
05-04-2004, 10:25 PM
Finds no one remotely interesting around her. [sighs]
M Yui
05-06-2004, 09:43 PM
nya~ o.o I have a boyfriend... um...I think some of the older members might remember twobellsilence--Mike? that's him ^^;;
shinotenshi
05-06-2004, 10:04 PM
woah, I remember him, way ta go! lol
M Yui
05-06-2004, 10:13 PM
^^; we were best friends for about a year first, and then we just kind of agreed to take the title 'cause all are friends kept telling us how cute we'd be
shinotenshi
05-06-2004, 10:19 PM
lol crazy, I was deemed with someone before I met my heartkeeper, then we were together for 2 1/2 years until the army dream came and took him away...
Oxygen
11-22-2004, 04:35 PM
From the time I posted my last post on this thread to the time I've returned... I finished off with the guy that was causing me misery and met someone new at my then new school. He and I were together for a few months during my Year 1.
Now at the middle of my Year 2, we are very much apart. Still hurts to talk about it, but my friends say its therapy to talk about it. Maybe like what I believe, I'm too much of an emotional screw up to deserve him. Somehow.. even after the way he treated me, I still hold a fairly unmarred view of him. Wonder if anyone understands....
shinotenshi
11-23-2004, 02:03 PM
awww you poor dear, I'm sorry to hear of such...
it is a kind of therapy to talk about it, just so long as you don't let yourself get caught up in old emotions. I don't think you're an emotional screw up, even to have been with him proved that you are very stable and maybe he was the one who screwed up. If you say 'the way he treated' you, that means he didn't really treat you that well, he abused your caring for him and you deserve much much better.
Have a good day.
Scarlett Fire
11-23-2004, 02:25 PM
Still single. Still not looking. >_>
Hear, Hear!
JFA_bobguy
11-23-2004, 04:27 PM
Hear, Hear!
W3rd. Never gonna happen to me, or so I think.
Yurika Star
11-26-2004, 10:54 PM
Still single, still looking for drunk one night stands.
Can't be that hard, anyone looks pretty good after a few shots. :)
Yurika Star
11-29-2004, 02:14 AM
It's what I look like after 15 shots thats concerning, and also what i remember.
Kyreii
11-29-2004, 09:16 AM
still single. Happily at times, unhappily at times. :)
Scarlett Fire
11-30-2004, 12:47 AM
The only time I'd want a boyfriend is to have someone go with me to dance classes so he can be my partner. I wouldn't object if he would pay for the classes too. =D
Yurika Star
12-03-2004, 09:59 AM
*flashes some cash*
Unfortunately I am the worst dancer to grace this world.
*has nightmares of trying to learn scottish dancing*
phlyRy
12-03-2004, 10:38 AM
wow. this thread freaks me out. i can't even believe the posts i made. *ahem*
the question i have is what consists of a girlfriend? i've claimed someone as my girlfriend, but i'm not even sure i can take it seriously. not to mention, i'm about to go to dinner with someone, who i might be interested in. if i hook up with that person, then on a technicality note, i could actually end up having a boyfriend and a girlfriend. which would be funny considering an old post in here where i asked if i could have both.
chaos runs amuck in my life!
Kyreii
12-03-2004, 07:57 PM
hahaha...
I wish I could dance.
kamui_shiro
12-07-2004, 04:09 PM
OMG i would so go to the classes with you scarlett fire!!! i so want to be a dancer!
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